Self Reflection For Positive Outcomes

Volunteering at the Ronald McDonald House provided a way for me to give back to those who supported me in a time of need, and make a positive difference in the lives of young children. My son was born 5 weeks premature and had heart and lung complications after birth. After I was discharged from the hospital, I was referred to the Ronald McDonald House. Because of the support they provided, my family was able to visit more. I had a place to get meals and shower during the hospital stay. And I am grateful for what they provided, making it feel even better to give back. Many of the volunteers and the organizations who donate meals to the house have similar experiences and want to give back.

Hospitalized children experience fear, anxiety, and isolation. As do their parents as they try to navigate life and support their children when they need them most. In a lot of cultures, feeding people is how you show love. Attending to housekeeping and serving meals may seem like a small feature, but goes such a long way. Minimizing financial strain and allowing parents to care for themselves increases their mood and ability to care for their children.

These supports are necessary, especially as we navigate through a time where families in need are losing healthcare and other benefits that help them support their families. One small step anyone can take is supporting their government funding SNAP benefits, Childcare Funding, and affordable healthcare. Being a part of an organization that support their whole child (their home life, medical care, and preventative care) shows you how small acts makes a big difference. It also makes you question; what supports to families need after they leave the hospital and the Ronald McDonald House?

The majority of the families staying in the Ronald McDonald House at the Parkview Regional Medical Facility are there because they have a premature baby, or one receiving care in the NICU. The hospital staff ensures that the parents understand their infant’s health condition and plan follow-up care before discharge. Other supports families may need concern services, supports, and socialization or awareness.

The Ronald McDonald House of Charity can work with other local organizations to fulfill these needs and build connections. Sharing support groups, getting started helping with applications for assistance, and identifying programs or activities that can benefit the child or family are good places to start, some of which are being achieved. But how can it be improved?

Family support specialists can be added to the staff team within the house. Family support specialists work with families inside and outside of their homes to identify the whole families needs. These services help navigate medical care, work, and domestic skills to improve the quality of life for all household members. If not added to the RMHC staff, coordinating and connecting families to organizations that provide these services would benefit low-income families experiencing care needs for their child.

While the work of a volunteer at the Ronald McDonald House primarily involves housekeeping, the positive effects are there. When looking at the hierarchy of needs, food, shelter, safety, and belonging are essential for learning and development. When needs are not being met and the body is under too much stress, it is impossible to thrive. Ensuring that families have a safe place to rest and eat during a scary and stressful time makes sure that they can focus on what matters— supporting themselves and their sick child. Encouraging healing for all parties.